By Aaron Wright
It is undeniable that the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act (IDEA) has aided educational access for autistic children. Prior to the first iteration of the law, children with disabilities did not necessarily have the right to a public education.
However, an unforeseen side effect of the IDEA’s deficit-oriented focus upon disability has created a dilemma for parents of autistic children and has fostered a problem-oriented societal approach to autistic people in general.
My daughter and Max Benson (#ShineOnMax) entered the public school system in Davis, California, at the same time as schoolmates. For our families, and families like ours, kindergarten was the next step on an already-established path of parental advocacy.
Enrolling a child in special education is not the same as signing someone up for T‑ball or a recreational soccer team. And it is certainly not the same as approaching your pediatrician for help with your infant or toddler who is displaying developmental delays.
It is often a tall order to obtain educational services for your child from an entity solely responsible identifying educational disability and simultaneously responsible for paying and enforcing that access. Even after a child has been identified as requiring special education, there is no guarantee that the services provided will be appropriate.
This inherently-conflicted system implicitly and explicitly directs the discussions about autistic children toward data points that can be captured, quantified, and documented. This process is fraught for families and fraught for the autistic child.
Because educational disability identification requires a focus upon what the child cannot do academically or is doing behaviorally that is construed as problematic, the hue of the lens through which disabled children are seen by their peers, educators, and administrators has been precast in anything but rose-colored.
Simultaneously, parents find themselves, knowingly or unknowingly, aligning with this construct of their child. Fearful that without pointing out the academic failures, the turmoil, and the differences between their child and their nondisabled peers, the much-needed academic access and accommodations may be reduced, faded, or altogether lost.
It is scientific fact that early academic intervention services greatly benefit struggling learners. But there is no guarantee of access or permanence. Many parents are fearful of publicly recognizing and celebrating their child’s successes or the neurodiversity they bring to the classroom because it may be used as leverage to keep that child from the services that allow them to make meaningful academic progress.
Imagine the absurdity of demolishing a wheelchair ramp simply because the individual who needed it to access the building in the first place finally made it inside. Yet for children with non-physical disabilities, that absurdity is an everyday reality. Parents are continually forced to explain the myriad of reasons that the ramp needs to remain, let alone be there in the first place.
The system itself is teaching all involved that disabled children are lesser. While there are many caring people who have chosen to educate our most vulnerable children, there is undeniable evidence that the culture the IDEA and its financial shortcomings have created a dehumanized view of disabled children. Individuals seen as less-than-human become easy targets for disdain, neglect, and cruelty.
When Max Benson was sent by our school district on an hour and a half bus ride to a school two counties away from his family, friends, and community, that was a clear statement that he was not worthy of belonging.
Had any honors student been forced to attend school over forty miles from their community due to a lack of appropriate teachers and materials, there would have been protests in the street. Had any teacher restrained a varsity letterman until they asphyxiated and succumbed to respiratory arrest, there would have been overwhelming public outrage. Max’s vigil drew only a small crowd; one without any representation from the school district’s leadership.
I doubt that if anyone asked any teacher or administrator if it is okay to sit on a nondisabled child’s chest for nearly two hours as a means discipline, that anyone would agree.
So why the disparate treatment for autistic children? Why is there a chasm between what is acceptable for one group of children but unacceptable for another? I cannot accept the actions or rationale of the teacher who restrained Max.
But is it any wonder that they felt justified in doing so when Max’s own hometown felt comfortable with the choice to send him miles away to a school with a known history of restraining children?
Treating him differently was formally endorsed.
The IDEA needs updating, adequate funding, and enforcement. The IDEA also needs to be put in alignment with international standards of human dignity. In 1948, the UN general assembly passed a resolution on basic human rights which included, among other things, that, “No one shall be subjected to torture or to cruel, inhuman or degrading treatment or punishment.” Until then the ostracism, segregation, and discrimination, against disabled children will continue to put parents in an untenable position.
As a means of coping with my own family’s experience with special education, I chronicled our story as a memoir (Daisy Has Autism). It is my sincerest hope that by sharing our experience it will spark a much larger conversation about how we treat our most vulnerable.
Aaron J. Wright is a Family Nurse Practitioner, parent, and advocate for disability access in public education. He recently published his memoir chronicling his family’s fraught and painful experience navigating the special education system with his daughter who has autism. He lives in the San Francisco Bay Area with his family and three dogs. Follow Aaron on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook.
June says
I am so sorry for what happened to Max. That should never happen to any child. They are children first. It is up to the grownups to teach discipline with love so the shield learns it’s ok to express being overwhelmed but there are safe healthy ways to deal with it. I am a special education teacher. I worked with a group of students with Autism I.n completing my dissertation. The beauty of the child within, the freedom of the senses in the varied ways children with ASDs perceive is a gift. Too many people spend too much time stuffing too many kids into a box of normal. What’s normal? Instead,use what their skills are and help them modulate their behaviors with a clear way to communicate, even if you start with picture cards and work up to something else. Being able to connect as human to human matters most. And LOVE them as you would any child- just no hugs if that’s not their thing! It goes way back to the earliest educators had it right. Let the child lead, and mound without demanding. You know, like you’d like to be treated. With respect and consideration for who you are. I am sorry you fight for services. I hope the best for you all.
Willie says
I used to live in the town next door to El Dorado Hills where the closed Guding Hands was located my town was called Citrus Heights. This tragedy was barely mentioned in the local news. The media only cares about upper middle class/wealthy abled bodied white children as victims of horrible crimes while the boy in this story at Guiding Hands was white he was lower middle class and not “abled bodied” because of his autism. Let us not forget other recent tragedies like the mass murder at Tsukui Yamayuri En a facility for the Developmentally disabled Near Yokohama Japan. The murderer of numerous people with autism 20-60 years old is on trial as of a few days ago with a possibility of a death penalty. Another horrible tragedy of several developmentally disabled people murdered in Temecula in 2016 the same year as Tsukui Yamayuri En which had even less media attention save for vor.net brief mention. I am glad the Guiding Hands school closed but another unrelated “non-profit” opened a similar school on the same site. The staff who did this restraigning related death will be charged but receieve a minimal punishment a tragedy.
Nancy Bailey says
How sad. Worldwide sadness. Thank you for sharing this information.
Willie says
I also wonder if the fact that El Dorado Hill status as a “census designated place” and not a real city or town like the county seat of El Dorado called Placerville complicated the investigagtion of the death of this child. El Dorado Hills has at least 35,000 people while Placerville has less than 10,000. which means the corner, sherrif, prosecutor ect. are in a smaller town 20 miles away. Many can figure out the designation of “census designated place” motive is tax reduction for the rich as El Dorado Hills is an upper middle class town since there is no city government and a weak county government to impose certain laws and taxes.